Harry Jowsey has posted his private DMs with Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star Jessi Draper following her allegations that her estranged husband Jordan Ngatikaura once accused them of having an affair.
The Perfect Match star, 28, reacted to Jessi’s bombshell interview on the Wednesday, March 25, episode of the “Call Her Daddy” podcast, where she said Jordan, 31, once accused her of cheating over a seemingly innocent birthday exchange.
Responding to a fan demanding he leak the DMs, Harry quipped in a TikTok video on Wednesday, “Alright, here you go!”
He played a series of voice messages that he seemingly exchanged with Jessi in May 2025 after they found out they share the same birthday.
“Hello, b-day twin, what are you doing, freaky girl?” Harry asked in one message.
Jessi, 33, responded, “I’m dying, that’s so funny. But I think you’re a lot younger than me so I’m jealous.”
The Hulu star shared that she was spending her birthday at a spa whereas Harry mentioned he’d planned a hike and a massage for his special day.
“Just taking it easy. Not trying to be a naughty boy anymore,” he teased, with Jessi replying, “Hopefully you get to relax and have a good birthday and get to do something fun tonight.”
Jessi seemingly had no problem with Jowsey sharing her DMs, as she replied “rawr” to his TikTok video. Her Mormon Wives costar Chase McWhorter also poked fun at the drama in a reply to Harry, quipping, “Coulda gone for a voice message on my bday smh.”
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Earlier in the day, Harry shared his disbelief that he is “always at the scene of the crime” whenever there is pop culture controversy.
“Guys, is this all my fault? … I’m trying to be normal and have a normal day and a normal life and stay out of drama because I’m not very good at it,” he joked via TikTok. “For some reason, I’m at the scene of every crime ever!”
Harry complained, “My existence has caused a little bit of trouble in [Jessie and Jordan’s] relationship because we were saying happy birthday to each other.”
On Wednesday’s “Call Her Daddy” podcast, Jessi shocked host Alex Cooper by alleging that Jordan once accused her of cheating with Harry.
“[Harry and I] have the same birthday. So, last May, this is when me and Jordan are separated. I responded to Harry’s [Instagram] Story and was like, ‘Oh my gosh, birthday twins!’ He voice-memos me. Like, you know how he talks? … He’s like, ‘How’s your birthday going, naughty possum?’ I was like, ‘Great! I’m going on a hike.’”
Jessi insisted that the quick birthday exchange was the full extent of their DMs, yet Jordan allegedly called her later to demand an explanation.
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“I’m in Europe,” Jessi recalled on the “Call Her Daddy” podcast. “I get a call at 4 a.m. from Jordan. He’s like, ‘Do you have to tell me something? I was like ‘What do you mean?’”
Jessi accused her ex of “hack[ing] my Instagram while we were separated [and he] created a fake phone number to then send himself the audio.”
“[The fake account wrote], ‘Dude, I think you should know about this. Your wife’s cheating on you,’” she alleged. “He accused me of cheating on him with Harry Jowsey, said it was someone else, then I found out it was him. That’s all it was. The audios were so innocent.”
Jessi told Cooper, 31, that she ultimately changed her phone number because Jordan also “tracked” her whereabouts and listened to her private conversations through security cameras at her house.
Us Weekly has reached out to Jordan and Jessi for comment.
The latest drama comes on the heels of Jordan filing for divorce on Thursday, March 19. He sought a temporary restraining order (TRO) against Jordan but his request was turned down by a judge on Tuesday, March 24.
Jessi and Jordan share two children: son Jagger Teina, 5, and daughter Jovi James, 3. Jessi is also a stepmother to Peyton, Jordan’s 13-year-old daughter from a previous relationship.
