Kristin Cavallari got candid about social media “red flags” she’s seen while dating men.
“Following girls [is] not a big deal,” Cavallari, 39, said during a Tuesday, March 24, episode of her “Let’s Be Honest” podcast. “Don’t stress it. But the ‘liking’ of the pictures is a bit of a red flag.”
She continued, “In a perfect world, ladies, we would get into a relationship and our guy would unfollow every random girl that they don’t know.”
Cavallari also advised her fans not to tell their men they “can’t” follow someone. “Let the man follow some hot girls [and] get it out [of their] system,” she quipped.
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“From my own personal experience, the guys we really need to be careful of is the married men who are ‘liking’ every story but not ‘liking’ a feed post,” Cavallari added. “I have those men constantly. Those guys are trash.”
“A lot of them are athletes,” she added. “And they don’t follow me either. But they’re verified and I see a lot of the verified activity. These guys are married.”

Cavallari went on to say there’s “one guy” who has his wife featured in his profile picture and still “‘likes’ every single story” she posts but won’t follow her.
“I’m like, ‘The only reason you’re doing that is to try and get my attention. To me, you’re a f***ing scumbag,’” she said. “I wish I could just call these people out or DM the wife and be like, ‘Here’s the activity that your husband is doing. Look at all these likes.’ You’re trash!”

While Cavallari is single now, she was married to Jay Cutler for nearly seven years. The duo met in 2010 and began dating. Cutler, 42, proposed in April 2011, but they called off their engagement in July of that year.
In November 2011, they got back together and welcomed their first child, Camden, now 13, the following year. In June 2013, they tied the knot in Nashville.
Cavallari gave birth to their second son, Jaxon, 11, in May 2014. The couple welcomed their third child, daughter Saylor, now 10, in November 2015.
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Cavallari and Cutler announced their separation in 2020 and finalized their divorce in 2022.
Cavallari later dated Mark Estes from February 2024 until they called it quits in September of that year.
Cutler, for his part, found love with model Samantha Robertson, whom he proposed to in 2024.

